Robert (Bob) M. Pacetti age 68 a resident of Kenosha, died Friday, September 10th, 2021. at his residence, after a long illness.
Born on February 13th, 1953, in Kenosha. he was the son of the late Amedeo “Mud” and Victoria (Firmani) Pacetti.
He married Laura Phillip on November 19th, 1977, at St Peters Catholic Church in Kenosha. They shared 43 years of marriage.
He was an independent tool dealer for over 30 years. He was previously employed at
Snap-On Tools, in the Product Promotion Dept., later as a tool dealer with Snap-On and also with Matco Tools.
Bob’s greatest love was our son, Ryan, wife, and his best friend, his Miniature Schnauzer-Alex. He was a wonderful father, and an awesome cook.
Due to health reasons, he retired in 2014.
He is survived by his loving wife Laura, who was his caregiver during his long illness,
He was preceded in death by his son Ryan, who died October 25, 2014, his beloved dog, his Miniature Schnauzer Alex, his parents, two brothers Brian and Neil Pacetti.
Bob’s wife, Laura, would like to thank all friends, both ours and our son Ryan, wonderful neighbors, for their kindness & support through these very difficult years and especially, Bob & Ava Truax , Janice & Dino Paielli, and all additional caregivers along the way.
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Debbie Beales says:
Dear, sweet Laura
I’m so sorry for this loss. Bob had such a long struggle and is at peace now. I will always remember the great times we had with our Product Promotion guys back in the day. Also, you and Bob welcomed Tom and me into the MN Snap-On family! Bob was a great guy with an amazing smile! He will be missed.
Take good care of yourself now,
Love
Debbie Beales
Laura Pacetti says:
Dear Debbie,
Thank you so much for your kind words and remembering all the good times we had, and we had quite a lot of fun back then. It seems like we just blinked and the years just passed by so quickly. Bob & I had a great life together. Since his stroke 7yrs ago, then losing our son, our lives were turned upside down. Bob lost of his fight to regain mobility and hadn’t walked in over 6yrs. His last year was spent in a hospital bed, which he hated, After watching him struggle and suffer all these years, I know he is in a better place, as he is now with our son Ryan. I will miss & love them both every day! I feel they are now together and catching up on lost time. We both know, we will be with our loved ones, and you with your Tom one day. Love you and take care of yourself as well!
Laura
Bill Colby says:
So sorry to hear of Bobs passing. My condolences to you. I really enjoyed working and traveling with Bob in our years in Snap On product promotion. we had a lot of good times in those years. We will be thinking of you Laura in our prayers.
Take Care
Bill and Mary Colby
Laura Pacetti says:
Dear Bill & Mary:
Thank you so much for your kind words and remembering all the good times we had, and we had quite a lot of fun back then. It seems like we just blinked and the years just passed by so quickly. Bob & I had a great life together. Since his stroke 7yrs ago, then losing our son, our lives were turned upside down. Bob lost of his fight to regain mobility and hadn’t walked in over 6yrs. His last year was spent in a hospital bed, which he hated, After watching him struggle and suffer all these years, I know he is in a better place, as he is now with our son Ryan. I will miss & love them both every day! I feel they are now together and catching up on lost time. We both know, we will be with our loved ones, we have lost, one day, Love you and take care of yourselfs as well!
Laura
Debbie Willoughby says:
Laura,
I am sorry to hear of your loss, with Ryan and now with Bob. I am sorry we never kept in contact, but I did think of you often. I know live in Georgia with my daughter and her family. I will pray for you in the days ahead.
Debbie Willoughby
Laura Pacetti says:
Thank you for writing. It has been years since we have been in contact with one another. Someday we will have to catch up. Hope you are well and enjoying your days in Georgia! As you can see from my other replies how our lives changed over the years. We do not know what our futures hold, as we live our days. Things can change when you least expect it. I know that Bob is no longer struggling, and no longer suffering. Bob is now with our son Ryan, and they are catching up on all Ryan’s lost years. I miss them both so very much! One day we will be together again. Bless you & take care!
Big Frank says:
Laura, When thinking of you and Bob [“Roberto Madell Pacetti” – I loved to call him by his full name using an overemphasized Italian accent… and he would just smile back…. I can see him now :-)], I think of your wedding…. singing and seeing you and Bob so happy together! Your happiness was shared with many good friends that day. That’s the Bob and Laura that I remember and will always remember.
Laura Pacetti says:
To our dear Best Man-Big Frank:
Yes I can clearly recall you calling Bob’s name, the way you always did, Roberto Madell Pacetti, with your overemphasized Italian accent. I loved those carefree days, with the Product Promotion group, so very long ago. I also remember how very happy we were on our wedding day, and you singing at our wedding. We have had so many wonderful friends, years and days along the way. Bob and I enjoyed a long life together and yes we had our ups and downs. His last 7years were by far, the roughest of all, for both of us. His stroke changed his life and losing Ryan, well he lost of his fight to regain mobility As hard as it was losing Bob in the end, I know he is now at peace with our dear son Ryan. We will all be together someday!
Love to you always,
Laura
Sharon Reau says:
Dear Laura,
We are sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. He was a great guy. Condolences to you my dear. You are in our prayers.
Gary and Sharon Reau
Laura Pacetti says:
Dear Sharon & Gary:
Thank you so much for your kind words. Bob & I had a great life together. Since his stroke 7yrs ago, then losing our son, our lives were turned upside down. Bob lost of his fight to regain mobility and hadn’t walked in over 6yrs. His last year was spent in a hospital bed, which he hated, After watching him struggle and suffer all these years, I know he is in a better place, as he is now with our son Ryan. I will miss & love them both every day! I feel they are now together and catching up on lost time. We both know, we will be with our loved ones, we have lost, one day, Love you and take care of yourselves.
Laura
Paul Starr says:
Dear old friend, I am deeply sorry for your loss and am hoping you can be comforted by Family and friends in your time of grief.
Laura Pacetti says:
Thank you my friend, for your kindness and kind words! We go back a very long way. Take care always!
Irene Buswell Niccolai says:
I’m so sorry, Sweetie. I know we just saw each other a couple of weeks ago and everything was good. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you.
Irene
Laura Pacetti says:
Thank you my friend, for your kindness and kind words! We go back a very long way. I miss our dinners at Gerhards and running into you occassionally. Take care always!
Laura
Michele Rothman says:
My dear Laura,
You and Bob were such great friends, I miss you so much, I live in Tennessee now for the last 10 yrs. I am so sorry to hear about Ryan and then Bob. You were a wonderful wife and Mother.
Laura Pacetti says:
Thank you my dear friend! So very glad to hear from you! I have thought about you so very many times! Talk soon!! Thank you for reaching out to me!
Pamela J Primmer says:
So sorry to learn of Bob’s passing.
Laura Pacetti says:
Thank you so very much my dear friend! Hope we can get together one day. Take care always!