Erik A. Eskola

Erik A. Eskola, age 27, of Kenosha, late of Milwaukee, found peace on August 25, 2020 at his home. He was the father to Easton Eskola, the son of Pamela Zalubowski and Bradley Eskola. He was also the brother of Evan Eskola.

To those who knew him, he was kind, giving, loving and outgoing. He loved the beach, the sun, saltwater and the outdoors. The family cherishes their memories of time spent with Erik, be it sports, vacations, over the road with Dad and spending summers with all his Grandparents. He especially loved hanging out with his Uncle Bill and his Uncle Brian. He also loved spending time with his cousins Ashley and Lacey and Auntie Vickie and Uncle Mark.

We thank our friends and family for all of their help and support at this time. There to welcome him home are his step-father, James Zalubowski, godmother, Lori Tappa, his Grandparents Nancy and Bruce Eskola and his Aunt Bonnie.

Services were held privately.

Thoughts for Erik A. Eskola;

  • Vicky Melander says:

    I have no words to describe the hole you left in this Aunties heart. Auntie Lori will take it from here! Forever, Auntie Vicky

    • Vicky Melander says:

      Erik had what, we in our family called, a belly laugh. He laughed from so deep down, you couldn’t help but laugh with him. He had a beautiful smile, and a great sense of humor, he will be missed.
      Love you, Auntie Vicky and Uncle Mark

  • Brian Bezotte says:

    U will truly be missed…that laff..that grin…all of our basketball games…and cruzin thru the neighborhood on the chopper!!! Never laffed so hard…Ganna miss ya ne ne ne nephew!!!

    Uncle Brian??

  • Dakota B says:

    Erik you were one of my closest friends growing up we’ve had a lot of good times together I will never forget those times ! ball in paradise my friend! You may be gone but you will never be forgotten !

    • Trace Mathiesen says:

      Erik you will be missed and remember forever. All our memories! I can’t remember a moment we weren’t laughing and enjoying life to the fullest. You will always be remembered as a best friend and a brother. Rest easy!

      RIP E

    • Andrea R says:

      “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.”
      ~ Washington Irving

      I will not dwell on the worst chapter in Erik’s life, but rather on little things that I remember—his huge smile, laughter, and embracing all the beautiful and fond memories. Erik will never be forgotten.

      Thessalonians 4:13-14
      Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.

  • Ashley Rowsey says:

    My heart hurts. I have loved you for 27 years. You and your brother were my ‘first babies’. The bond I had with you was so special and unlike any other. You’ve always had your very own special spot in my heart. Life is going to be very different without you. I miss you kid, and the love I have for you is unconditional and forever!!

  • Kaylee James says:

    I wish i was able to say goodbye to u erik.. Its been hard without u. But ik u will b with me and looking over me. I will miss sleeping next to you. And you always being warm. Your pretty eyes and the sound of your voice. I love you erik. And i always will. Thank u for giving me almost 2 yrs together. And we making the most of it. Ik we had plans to spend many more together but ik u will b waiting for me til were together again. Rest easy my baby. ???

  • Erin Arndt says:

    Words will not wipe away your tears and hugs may not ease the pain but hold onto. your memories because forever they will remain.

    I am so sorry for your family’s loss.You are all in my thoughts & prayers.

    May you R.I.P. Erik

  • Erik's Mom says:

    Each day as evening starts to set
    The ache builds in her chest
    She knows that she must go to bed
    And try to get some rest

    She hugs her tearstained pillow close
    When no one is around
    And cries for the one she loved and lost
    And screams without a sound

    Others see her in the day
    And think she’s doing well
    But every day as evening sets
    She enters her own hell

    Time hasn’t healed her pain at all
    Or quieted her fears
    So every night alone in bed
    She sheds those silent tears

    • Heidi Kaden says:

      I’m so sorry Pam. I just figured out the news and realized it was your son. I am so sad for you but let the memories give you strength for the future??

    • Fran Collins says:

      Pam,
      I can’t imagine your pain. So difficult to lose a child. You and your family are in my daily thoughts and prayers.

      Love you
      Fran

  • R. Tunkieicz says:

    Hey Pam (Chaps)

    Just heard about your son. I’m so sorry.
    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
    Email me at HD or Margaret has my cell #
    Take care
    Rick

  • Zach Loewen says:

    Just found out of Erik’s passing and am saddened to hear. Erik was one of my best friends back in middle school. We hung out practically every weekend for about two years. Erik was always a lot of fun to be around and knew how to make others laugh. He was the kind of person that made sure everyone was having a good time and did whatever he could to put a smile on someone’s face. Unfortunately, after middle school we lost touch. I’ll always remember all the fun times we had way back then. Rest easy.

  • Ashley Rowsey says:

    I sure miss you kid. I think about you so often; most times it makes me cry but sometimes I giggle. We sure laughed alot. I’m blessed I get to have so many wonderful memories of you. I love you forever!!!

  • Vicky says:

    You know I love you. I pray for God to ease your pain. Somedays that kid pops in my head and smile. Then I cry. Love you

  • Lisa Koenes says:

    Pam and Evan, I am so sorry to hear about Eric’s passing. I can not imagine your pain. Every time I drive past your house I think about the sweet boy that used to spend time at our house. He and Zack had some great times together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    Lisa Koenes and the Koenes Family

    • Pamela Zalubowski says:

      Thank you so much for your kind words. I don’t check this too often because it hurts so much! Your thoughts mean a lot to me.

  • Evan Eskola says:

    I miss you so much Erik. We were best friends. I think about you everyday of my life. I love you dude and I wish you were here

  • Evan says:

    I miss you dude. I just want you to know I will send you a message all the time. It’s not end buddy. It’s see you later. I love you

  • Evan says:

    Sorry I messed up. I miss you dude. I just want you to know I will send you a message all the time. It’s not the end buddy. It’s see you later. I love you Erik and miss you and think about you everyday.

  • Evan says:

    Happy Birthday Erik, I miss you. Carson is a healthy baby and Easton is going to be the best cousin in the world. Love you

  • Pamela A Zalubowski says:

    I miss you. Easton is growing up very fast. Almost 12 now. We are taking him to Costa Rica because he wants to see a sloth. You will be watching over us keeping us safe.

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